Around the house!
Well, it has been a slow blog week so thought I'd post a couple pics of the gardens around the house. The New garden, with the white rocks, I did over the weekend. This was an area in the shade where grass refuses to grow! I hope it will look better when the "monkey grass" gets bigger.
This is a view of front yard from carport..... exciting I know!
Entrance garden and fountain.
A FEW CULTURAL DIFFERENCES TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN ENTERTAINING..... An article from a local magazine that points out cultural differences:
One major difference in the Thai and western culture is how each group entertains. I have been to many parties at Thai houses, but very few dinners. Entertaining a dinner guest at a restaurant is the norm. So when a western expat plans a mixed Thai and expat dinner party at home, remember that most Thais won't have had much experience with this western concept. Here are a few suggestions.
Make it bilingual
In a mixed group of expats and Thais the conversation is invariably in English. Think how hard it is for your Thai guests to speak English for hours on end. Could you do that in Thai? So unless your expat guests are fluent in Thai or your Thai guests are fluent in English you may very well end up with two different parties, each group happily speaking their own language, but separately.
Homogeneous works best
Another thing that could break up a nice cohesive party in Thailand is mixing different ages and social statuses. An expat might find this a stimulating social mixture but here it would just produce a house full of uncomfortable Thai guests who aren't used to this kind of mixing.
Let everyone know your kitchen rules
If a guest wanted to help in a western kitchen you would have to ask permission of the hostess first. But Thais consider food preparation a group activity. Be prepared for your Thai guests to walk into your kitchen and start chopping vegetables. The same goes for clean up. You could easily discover someone in your kitchen washing your dishes for you. If you don't want anyone in your kitchen it is best to let people know that ahead of time.
Your choice of food is important
If you will be serving western food for dinner then you'll be using a knife and fork. Understand that this might be new and a bit uncomfortable for some of your Thai guests who haven't been to the west. If you opt to serve Thai food be aware that a Thai dinner is really not balanced unless there are at least three main dishes, a meat or fish dish, a vegetable dish, and of course a spicy dish. A one dish casserole or hot pot, fine for a western dinner, just wouldn't be considered complete to the Thai palate.
Enjoy your dinner party and Bon Appetit.
For further information about retiring to Thailand check out Hugh's site www.retire2thailand.com.
Hugh's advice for the month: If you make a dinner date with someone for a certain time make sure they know whether you are talking about Thai Time or Farang Time. One is very different from the other.
This is a view of front yard from carport..... exciting I know!
Entrance garden and fountain.
A FEW CULTURAL DIFFERENCES TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN ENTERTAINING..... An article from a local magazine that points out cultural differences:
One major difference in the Thai and western culture is how each group entertains. I have been to many parties at Thai houses, but very few dinners. Entertaining a dinner guest at a restaurant is the norm. So when a western expat plans a mixed Thai and expat dinner party at home, remember that most Thais won't have had much experience with this western concept. Here are a few suggestions.
Make it bilingual
In a mixed group of expats and Thais the conversation is invariably in English. Think how hard it is for your Thai guests to speak English for hours on end. Could you do that in Thai? So unless your expat guests are fluent in Thai or your Thai guests are fluent in English you may very well end up with two different parties, each group happily speaking their own language, but separately.
Homogeneous works best
Another thing that could break up a nice cohesive party in Thailand is mixing different ages and social statuses. An expat might find this a stimulating social mixture but here it would just produce a house full of uncomfortable Thai guests who aren't used to this kind of mixing.
Let everyone know your kitchen rules
If a guest wanted to help in a western kitchen you would have to ask permission of the hostess first. But Thais consider food preparation a group activity. Be prepared for your Thai guests to walk into your kitchen and start chopping vegetables. The same goes for clean up. You could easily discover someone in your kitchen washing your dishes for you. If you don't want anyone in your kitchen it is best to let people know that ahead of time.
Your choice of food is important
If you will be serving western food for dinner then you'll be using a knife and fork. Understand that this might be new and a bit uncomfortable for some of your Thai guests who haven't been to the west. If you opt to serve Thai food be aware that a Thai dinner is really not balanced unless there are at least three main dishes, a meat or fish dish, a vegetable dish, and of course a spicy dish. A one dish casserole or hot pot, fine for a western dinner, just wouldn't be considered complete to the Thai palate.
Enjoy your dinner party and Bon Appetit.
For further information about retiring to Thailand check out Hugh's site www.retire2thailand.com.
Hugh's advice for the month: If you make a dinner date with someone for a certain time make sure they know whether you are talking about Thai Time or Farang Time. One is very different from the other.
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